James 4 New International Version (NIV) Submit Yourselves to God 4 What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. 3 When… Read More

From a Narcissistic point of view, much information online can help those stuck in a narcissistic relationship to not only understand the signs but make wise decisions.The problem is this personality disorder is rarely seen as spiritual. This is an unfolding phenomenon that is only getting worse as our culture crazes over individuality and self-seeking… Read More

How to spot a Passive/Aggressive type. Updated on November 15 2015 Passive aggressive behavior is maligned and dysfunctional by means of trying to control one’s environment at the expense of someone else’s. Simply, it is a person who is incapable of having a healthy proactive relationship, where both sides equally share in a straightforward, open, and… Read More

Codependency and Relationship Addiction Codependency is a learned relational pattern that affects a woman or man’s ability to develop emotionally healthy, satisfying relationships. Often women/men who are codependent gravitate toward relationships that are emotionally destructive and abusive. 40 Million Americans, most women, are labeled as codependent.  The original concept of codependency developed from responses and… Read More

Self-Worth and Approval Self-esteem and self-worth go hand and hand. Self-worth is how one identifies their value and identity. Self-esteem is the measuring stick of how one feels about self. Two Components to measuring worth is based on security and significance. Self-esteem and worth are based on how a woman feels loved and accepted. Many… Read More

Signs you are spending time with a narcissist: In the beginning they are a breath of fresh air, nonconforming like you, free spirited, edgy Can easily engage in hours of conversation, like you Believe they too are an empath, just like you or at least sensitive You feel like you are two peas in one… Read More

Empaths-Clairsentient I have been investigating the world of empaths for about 2 years, now. There is so much information out there and a lot of it is contradictory. It is really confusing. The part I detest most, a lot of empaths are tied to the new age movement. If you are at all familiar with… Read More

We all know that marriage can be challenging, but it can also be very rewarding. The problem is, many get married thinking as long as we are compatible or share similar interests, we will be just fine. Reality tells another story. As counselors, we are taught how to help with these sticky situations but most… Read More